Woman reflecting on relationship patterns and creating healthier relationships through Rewrite Your Love Algorithm
Woman reflecting on relationship patterns and creating healthier relationships through Rewrite Your Love Algorithm

A PRIVATE RELATIONSHIP INTENSIVE FOR SINGLES

Rewrite Your

Love Algorithm™

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For accomplished singles ready for a different kind of love.

Uncover and reframe the unconscious patterns shaping your relationships and create a healthier, more fulfilling love story.

Successful single man reflecting on relationship patterns during a private relationship intensive with Joanna L. Cox.
Successful single man reflecting on relationship patterns during a private relationship intensive with Joanna L. Cox.

The same relationship patterns aren’t random.

They’re learned.

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Beneath the surface, unconscious beliefs, emotional experiences, attachment patterns, and learned responses quietly influence what feels familiar, what you tolerate, how you communicate, and how safe love feels.

These patterns often operate automatically, outside of conscious awareness. That's why many people find themselves repeating the same relationship dynamics, even with completely different partners.

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Until you understand what’s running beneath the surface, it’s difficult to consciously choose something different.

That’s exactly what Rewrite Your Love Algorithm™ is designed to help you uncover. This private relationship intensive helps you identify and understand the unconscious beliefs, emotional patterns and learned responses that may be influencing who you choose, what you tolerate and how you experience relationships.

Do You Recognize Yourself in Any of These?

If you...

✓ Find yourself attracted to emotionally unavailable or inconsistent partners.

✓ Keep repeating the same relationship patterns, even with different people.

✓ Struggle to trust your instincts after betrayal, divorce, or unhealthy relationships.

✓ Stay in relationships longer than you know you should.

✓ Feel anxious, disconnected, or emotionally exhausted in relationships.

✓ Wonder why healthy relationships can sometimes feel unfamiliar or even uncomfortable.

✓ Have done personal growth but still find yourself repeating the same patterns.

✓ Want to understand why you make the relationship choices you do, not just how to change them.

Then...

Your relationship patterns may not be about finding better partners.

They may be about understanding the unconscious beliefs and emotional patterns influencing your choices.

And that's where meaningful change begins.

Man standing at a crossroads representing unconscious relationship patterns and the choice to create healthier relationships.

Lasting Change Begins Beneath the Surface.

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Understanding your relationship patterns is the first step.

Changing them is what creates lasting transformation.

Many people already know what they do in relationships. They know they avoid conflict, have knee-jerk responses when communicating, people-please, struggle with boundaries, choose emotionally unavailable partners, or become anxious when relationships become important.

The challenge isn't a lack of awareness.

It's that these patterns are often driven by unconscious beliefs, emotional learning, and protective responses that developed long before your current relationship.

Together, we'll identify those patterns, understand why they developed, and begin creating healthier ways of thinking, responding, and connecting.

Because lasting relationships don't begin with trying harder.

They begin by changing the patterns beneath the surface.

Three-step process to discover unconscious relationship patterns, transform emotional responses, and create healthier relationships.

Why This Experience Works

Most counselling happens one hour at a time.

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There's absolutely a place for weekly counselling.

But when you're trying to uncover years of unconscious relationship patterns, stopping every 50 minutes often means spending the first part of each session remembering where you left off.

Rewrite Your Love Algorithm™ was designed differently.

Instead of working in small pieces over many weeks, we spend uninterrupted time exploring your relationship history, identifying the unconscious beliefs influencing your choices, and creating a personalized roadmap for lasting change.

For many clients, this concentrated format creates clarity that would have taken months to uncover.

Woman reflecting on unconscious relationship patterns and emotional experiences as part of Rewrite Your Love Algorithm.
Woman reflecting on unconscious relationship patterns and emotional experiences as part of Rewrite Your Love Algorithm.

DISCOVER

Relationship history

Attachment

Values

Patterns

UNDERSTAND

Why these patterns developed

How they're influencing your relationships today

What keeps them repeating

REWRITE

New beliefs

Healthy relationship blueprint

Personal action plan

Follow-up support

What Your Experience Looks Like

Private setting for a Rewrite Your Love Algorithm relationship intensive.

Every Rewrite Your Love Algorithm™ intensive is personalized to your relationship history, goals, and the unconscious patterns shaping your experiences. While every intensive is unique, most follow a similar structure designed to create meaningful, lasting change.

Portrait of Joanna L. Cox, marriage counsellor, relationship strategist and founder of Rewrite Your Love Algorithm™, helping singles identify and change unconscious relationship patterns.

Joanna L. Cox

Why I Created Rewrite Your Love Algorithm™

For more than 17 years, I have helped people through every stage of relationships.

I have supported individuals as they found the courage to leave relationships that were no longer healthy, helped them heal after separation, guided them as they began new relationships and worked with couples who wanted to repair and strengthen the relationship they already had.

Through that work, I have developed a deep understanding of what people bring to the relationship table.

We do not enter relationships with a blank slate. We bring our values, beliefs, expectations, emotional triggers, attachment patterns, protective responses and everything we learned about love from the relationships that came before.

My passion is helping singles understand those patterns before they become the foundation of another relationship.

Rewrite Your Love Algorithm™ was created to help you heal what remains unresolved from the past, understand the unconscious programming influencing your relationship choices and become intentional about what you want to create next.

My neuroscience-informed approach combines more than 17 years of relationship counselling with advanced training in NLP, Time Line Therapy®, hypnotherapy, NLP coaching and Neuro Change. I am also pursuing advanced doctoral studies in Relationship Dynamics, with research focused on the unconscious mind and its influence on relational behaviour.

This is not simply about finding the right person.

It is about understanding who you are when you come to the relationship table, changing the patterns that no longer serve you and becoming ready to recognize, choose and build a healthier kind of love.

Choose Your Experience

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Every Rewrite Your Love Algorithm™ intensive follows the same proven transformational process. The difference is how you choose to experience it.

Private Online or In-Person Intensive

Online Available Across Canada

In-Person Available in Sudbury & Collingwood

Experience Rewrite Your Love Algorithm™ through four private 2-hour online or in-person intensive sessions, completed over approximately four weeks.

You’ll move through the complete RLA transformational process from the privacy of your own space, or Joanna’s office allowing time between sessions to integrate the work.

4 × 2-hour private sessions
Completed over approximately 4 weeks

$2,497 + HST

Your four private sessions will be scheduled directly with Joanna following registration.

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Signature Suite Experience

The Ultimate Luxury Experience

Private full-day intensive at The St. Regis Toronto, including your luxury suite and lunch at Louix Louis.

$5,497 + HST

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Looking for Something More Private or Flexible?

For clients seeking a more bespoke RLA experience.

Payment Options

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Flexible payment options are available.

If you’d prefer to spread your investment over multiple payments, a customized payment plan may be available.

Please contact Joanna before booking to discuss available options.

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Professional Development

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For business owners and professionals, portions of Rewrite Your Love Algorithm™ may relate to professional development when the work directly supports skills used in your business or professional role.

A detailed receipt describing the professional services provided is available upon request.

Eligibility for any business or professional expense deduction depends on your individual circumstances. Please consult your accountant or tax professional.

Frequently Asked Questions

  • “I finally understood why.”

    “For years, I kept attracting the same kind of relationship and couldn’t understand why. I always thought I just had bad luck. Joanna helped me see the patterns I had been repeating without even realizing it. That one day completely changed how I see myself, my relationships, and what healthy love actually looks like.”

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    —James C

  • “I trust myself again.”

    “This wasn’t about blaming my past or reliving old relationships. It was about understanding how my experiences had been shaping my choices. I left feeling lighter, more confident, and, for the first time in a long time, I trusted myself to choose differently.”

    —Amanda R

  • “More clarity in one day than years of trying.”

    “I’ve read the books, listened to the podcasts, and spent years trying to figure out why my relationships always followed the same pattern. Joanna helped me connect the dots in a way no one ever had. I left with clarity, practical tools, and a completely different perspective on relationships.”

    —Tony D

  • Not just counselling

    “This wasn’t just counselling. It completely changed how I understand myself, relationships, and what healthy love actually looks like.”

    —Michelle P

Ready to Rewrite the Patterns Shaping Your Relationships?

Rewrite Your Love Algorithm™ is a private, personalized experience designed to help you understand what’s been operating beneath the surface, transform the patterns that no longer serve you, and create a healthier foundation for love moving forward.

If you’re ready to begin, choose the next step that feels right for you.

Not sure which experience is right for you? Send an inquiry below and I’ll help you decide.

Have a Question Before You Book?

Tell me a little about what you’re looking for and I’ll personally review your inquiry.

Your inquiry is private and confidential. Joanna will respond personally.